Pakistan is not really the land of the pure, although we’d like it to be and may be someday, Inshallah, it will be; however, for now it’s definitely not the land of the pure. In fact it’s quite far from being the land of the pure. In 2009, I can safely say, it’s really a land of the brave – Bahaduristan.
Living in Pakistan with peace, with honesty, and with a reasonable ethical standard, requires a lot of bravery and resources. It’s not a place for the weak or straight forward, i.e. “shareef” people. Even if you want to sustain a simple principle of being able to speak the truth in all aspects of your life, you will encounter a lot of difficulties. To fight these difficulties you will need a lot of financial and mental resources, right people working for you and right people to be on your side… It’s really pathetic… It really applies to almost all things in Pakistan. Even a minor transaction can have a lot of issues with it. E.g. buying the right AC, at the right price, and to have it installed properly by the right person, even if you are willing to pay the premium, requires more work than usual on your part. I.e. identifying the right party who will not deceive you and continuously making sure your assumptions are correct about that party. The same applies to dealing with the plumber, carpenter or even if you’re dealing with a local reputable company or a big multi-national company. Buying healthy food products and genuine medicines will require the same science. To keep all these trivial things in life in order, requires a lot of effort, right contacts and resources. It’s doable, but really this brings down your productivity and increases your real costs of living and costs of doing business here.
Nobody knows anything for sure in Pakistan. People love making estimates and guesstimates. The culture of the country is not scientific at all. Even your near ones will misguide you regarding critical matters, not because they don’t intend well for you, rather because they believe their erroneous beliefs are actually correct. Even the ministry of Science and Technology will behave in the most unscientific manner. Even the Judge who is designated to decide on scientific matters will behave in the most unscientific and illogical ways – i.e. google away critical life altering decisions. Yes! No Kidding! Even the police force who are supposed to be specialized in technical matters will talk just plain rubbish. E.g. don’t be surprised if you get tangled in an argument about the definition of a leap year with a technical specialist in a high government job. I thought I knew Pakistan. I knew there was corruption, mismanagement and incompetence. But in the past 5 years ever since I moved back to Pakistan, I have come to a new realization. The situation is far more pathetic than anybody can imagine. People here don’t even understand what’s in their own economic interest. The level of corruption and more so incompetence is just mind boggling. I mean dealing with corruption is not that difficult – you just have to spend more money. But the problem with incompetence is, they just don’t understand what is right or wrong, or what is an apple or an orange, or what is difference between a car and a truck. Even when it comes to trivial things, you’ll be just amazed. This culture is so deeply ingrained with show-off, incompetence, corruption, criminal behavior and injustice at all levels of the society, that it will blow you away. Even the so called educated people are not immune to this culture. You can always find exceptions to this generalization, however, statistically, you will find these facts to be true most of the time.
Therefore, living in Pakistan requires a lot of commitment. If you start doing a fair comparison between living in Pakistan and outside, you will inevitably come to the conclusion that living outside is much better from almost all angles – be it personal, financial, or ethical. Living in Pakistan cannot be justified based on merits. Hence I say it again, living in Pakistan requires a serious commitment. Commitment that you will live in Pakistan no matter what… Commitment that you want to stay with your family members, since practically not everybody can move. Commitment of making this a better place to live for your future generation. Commitment that you can’t and will not abandon your homeland. Commitment that you want to give back to the society to make it a better place for others, and finally a commitment to yourself that you will not let the dogs drive you out of your own home.
muhammad imran fida said on October 15th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
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i fully agree that one has to be extremely committed to live in pakistan.but i must say this is our home and we cant abondon it no matter what happens. tell me, one day it starts raining and your roof starts seeping what do you do. leave your home and go to another place. no you stay put fix it .
Adnan said on October 23rd, 2009 at 7:41 pm
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Very nicely put article. One thing not mentioned is the rate and trend of decay. Did you feel in your five years that the trend is getting better or worst or same? Any hope for new people moving back that the future might be bright?
Afaque Ahmed said on November 1st, 2009 at 11:41 am
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Dear Adnan,
Things are getting worse on a daily basis. One of the major contributing factors is, everybody, especially people who are educated and can make a difference, wants to abandon Pakistan and simply run away from this place. People who want to return back want to see things improve and then return.
I believe resourceful and educated people need to come back to Pakistan to make it a better place. If you expect that things will seriously improve while you remotely monitor and will then decide to move back, I don’t think that will happen. YOU ARE THE CHANGE THIS COUNTRY NEEDS.
sidhas said on December 23rd, 2009 at 5:12 am
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I am glad to find your website. It does help to read someone who has taken a plunge. We came to the same decision after lots of thinking that going to Pakistan is a akin to commiting suicide, if I can put bluntly.
We have decided to move, once again. This is my third try. The first one was a trial. Second one was done in haste and as learned the hard way you can’t live separately. After few months, you endup calling them back.
The only way to get yourself established in Pakistan is to cut the umbilical cord.
To date, I am not sure what I will do in Pakistan. I am a SAP and Supply Chain professional with 12 years of functional and technical experience.
I am still thinking that I should work here for few years but the fact is that it will lead to another aborted attempt.
It is truly a commitment, Kamakazi commitment.
Thank you for writing your experiences.
Afaque Ahmed said on December 26th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
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Dear Sidhas,
I’m glad that you have found the contents of this website useful; I’m also glad that you have decided to move back, yet once again, to Pakistan.
Just FYI, may be you have already checked this website. http://www.rozee.pk It will be helpful for your research.
fortis321 said on March 27th, 2010 at 3:44 am
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I am very glad to read about the real experience you have made in Pakistan.
I have decided since 2005 to move back to Pakistan once I have completed my study + specialization of 3 years. I am studying dentistry in Austria currently in 5th year ( from 6 years ) and planing to move back until 2015 or 2016…. And you have made me think and prepare my self better for life in Pakistan ( because I will live in Pakistan for sure )
the good news is that there are many people who came back and they r still living in Pakistan.